Chat thread
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DanglyBrasco
Moozo
GearsCT
weeble
mcgugan
Dingo
Rebellious Backbencher
01casey
Black Suede
gdf
Kaptain Kaviar
Dont Look Angry
Seany C
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Re: Chat thread
No idea he just disappeared like Ash did.
Tbh with you, I don't really feel like I'm on the same boat as everyone else, I just come on to these forums, I don't know why, maybe its because I haven't really got anything better to do with my life or what, but I'm strangely drawn back to talking to you guys over and over again.
I've never felt like I've really been one of the "cool kids" anywhere before, I've never felt like I've ever been accepted anywhere, even here I've not really felt accepted, more of just that guy who posts. Maybe that's why I tried to get a girlfriend for so long, cos I felt that if I got one then at least one person in the world truly cared about me, and which is probably why I get quite upset when we fight.
Theres my 2 pennies, take it as you will
Tbh with you, I don't really feel like I'm on the same boat as everyone else, I just come on to these forums, I don't know why, maybe its because I haven't really got anything better to do with my life or what, but I'm strangely drawn back to talking to you guys over and over again.
I've never felt like I've really been one of the "cool kids" anywhere before, I've never felt like I've ever been accepted anywhere, even here I've not really felt accepted, more of just that guy who posts. Maybe that's why I tried to get a girlfriend for so long, cos I felt that if I got one then at least one person in the world truly cared about me, and which is probably why I get quite upset when we fight.
Theres my 2 pennies, take it as you will
GearsCT- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Northampton
Re: Chat thread
isnt ash missing on facebook as well? think i remember casey saying something bout it
bomby- Join date : 2008-12-19
Age : 32
Location : house
Re: Chat thread
Aimed at Gears (Damn you quick posters!!)
Oh come on dude, i think everyone here, on the Interhood, is a part of the community now, i mean i certainly dont, nor will i ever feel as though im as part of the community as Major, Suede, Seany, Casey and Bob, i think because they were all around when i got here and they seem like genuinely good friends. I feel similar to you, though i do feel proud to be able to say i talk to you guys...
AND Because you said "take it as you will", i simply CANNT BELEIVE you managed to incorporate reminding us you had a girlfriend!! I had a genuine LOL, HOWEVER, i know exactly what you mean, perfectly, finding a girlfriend gives you a sense of acceptance that nothing else can, and im pleased for you.
Oh come on dude, i think everyone here, on the Interhood, is a part of the community now, i mean i certainly dont, nor will i ever feel as though im as part of the community as Major, Suede, Seany, Casey and Bob, i think because they were all around when i got here and they seem like genuinely good friends. I feel similar to you, though i do feel proud to be able to say i talk to you guys...
AND Because you said "take it as you will", i simply CANNT BELEIVE you managed to incorporate reminding us you had a girlfriend!! I had a genuine LOL, HOWEVER, i know exactly what you mean, perfectly, finding a girlfriend gives you a sense of acceptance that nothing else can, and im pleased for you.
DanglyBrasco- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 33
Location : Angleland
Re: Chat thread
Yer sorry man, I don't put her in to every other post on purpose.
Although what I find really distressing is the fact that I don't really feel accepted as such in my group of friends, and I have no idea why, I really shouldn't feel this, I just do.
Although what I find really distressing is the fact that I don't really feel accepted as such in my group of friends, and I have no idea why, I really shouldn't feel this, I just do.
GearsCT- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Northampton
Re: Chat thread
GearsCT wrote:Yer sorry man, I don't put her in to every other post on purpose.
Although what I find really distressing is the fact that I don't really feel accepted as such in my group of friends, and I have no idea why, I really shouldn't feel this, I just do.
Hey dont apologise, im really rather happy to see a guy who is so happy
And im going through a similar thing, just finished school, and i should be having the best sumer ever with the friends ive growing up with. But now, for reasons in the Relationship thread, i dont want to see a majority of them ever again. Just, just fuck it.
DanglyBrasco- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 33
Location : Angleland
Re: Chat thread
I poured my heart and soul into that and its been lost in gay pictures
GearsCT- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Northampton
Re: Chat thread
GearsCT wrote:Yer sorry man, I don't put her in to every other post on purpose.
Although what I find really distressing is the fact that I don't really feel accepted as such in my group of friends, and I have no idea why, I really shouldn't feel this, I just do.
Been there.
For me things changed when I took a look at the people I was associating myself with, and realised I was in a pretty pathetic pursuit of being one of "the cool kids".
Thank God I didn't feel accepted, though: if I had, I wouldn't like to think about where I'd be right now. I wouldn't be having as much fun, that's for sure.
Maybe we just have to go through these things in order to adjust to the future? I hope you can look back at some point and feel the same.
Rebellious Backbencher- Join date : 2008-08-26
Re: Chat thread
Yer but you see the thing is I'm in the group of friends who I really should be friends with, we like the same things and everything, and this isn't being manipulated, this is actually what I like. Yet I still don't feel like I belong anywhere.
GearsCT- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Northampton
Re: Chat thread
GearsCT wrote:Yer but you see the thing is I'm in the group of friends who I really should be friends with, we like the same things and everything, and this isn't being manipulated, this is actually what I like. Yet I still don't feel like I belong anywhere.
Its called being a teenager.
Great isnt it
DanglyBrasco- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 33
Location : Angleland
Re: Chat thread
bomby wrote:isnt ash missing on facebook as well? think i remember casey saying something bout it
Yeah, Ash has been gone since around April. I hope he's alright.
And in addition to my essay earlier... I forgot to mention why I seem so fucking uptight on the other forums at times. I think it's a combination of the stress of the day, together with the fact that quite frankly, I feel at times that it's the only place I get listened to and taken seriously. Some of my friends just don't do 'taking serious', therefore it's just the way I come across I guess. One thing's for sure though - I never intend to offend!
01casey- Join date : 2008-09-02
Age : 32
Location : Preston, UK
Re: Chat thread
Me and Ash had our up's and down's, but he was (and still is, if I could get back in touch) a good mate and someone who I always had a laugh with either on MSN or on Live. I miss that man!
01casey- Join date : 2008-09-02
Age : 32
Location : Preston, UK
Re: Chat thread
Last I saw of Dobotron was as a guest on our podcast. Last I saw of Ash was when he offered me a staff position on a site that never came to be.
Gears, I don't want to be harsh, but whenever I've seen people who suspect they're not really accepted by their proper friends, it's because they're not very self aware and can't identify what's alienating them to an extent. Everyone's OK to their face, but behind their back, anything goes. This might not be your situation, but perhaps you should speak to one of them about it. If you are doing something wrong or if there's an aspect of your personality that bugs the rest, ask them to identify it and work on it.
Gears, I don't want to be harsh, but whenever I've seen people who suspect they're not really accepted by their proper friends, it's because they're not very self aware and can't identify what's alienating them to an extent. Everyone's OK to their face, but behind their back, anything goes. This might not be your situation, but perhaps you should speak to one of them about it. If you are doing something wrong or if there's an aspect of your personality that bugs the rest, ask them to identify it and work on it.
gdf- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Aberdeen
Re: Chat thread
Yer I was thinking that as well gdf, well when they're back from Bangor I'll see if its any different
GearsCT- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Northampton
Re: Chat thread
Hehe, Bangor. First time I heard that was in a best man's speech.
Rebellious Backbencher- Join date : 2008-08-26
Re: Chat thread
gdf wrote:Last I saw of Ash was when he offered me a staff position on a site that never came to be.
Me and him were contemplating a film/TV mini-project when we last spoke. Miss that man!
01casey- Join date : 2008-09-02
Age : 32
Location : Preston, UK
Re: Chat thread
"I would certainly never have rushed to Bangor, but John hasn't looked back"Rebellious Backbencher wrote:Hehe, Bangor. First time I heard that was in a best man's speech.
gdf- Join date : 2008-08-26
Age : 32
Location : Aberdeen
Re: Chat thread
"Turns out they're honeymooning in Wales... well that's what I think he meant when he said he was going to Bangor for two weeks"
Rebellious Backbencher- Join date : 2008-08-26
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